Traveling cross-country with a cat.

When we decided on doing another cross-country road trip, the first thing that popped in my mind was my darling baby Bentley. Our first trip across the States was an absolute blast but we also didn’t have a cat back then to worry about leaving behind. And even if we had, we had tons of family nearby to do daily checks on her and feed her. In Miami, this was quite the opposite type of situation. Sure, we had friends that offered to check in on her and stop by our place, but for the extensive amount of time we’d be gone, we thought it better to take her along.

Now I know this sounds crazy and I surely thought there was no way to make it work. I’m THE MOST paranoid person in the world when it comes to my cat. This past summer I had Joey buy a camera to set up so that while we were both traveling (to different places for 4 days each) we could check in on her via an app on our cell phones. I am for sure one of those crazy cat people and I hate the idea of leaving Bentley alone for longer than 2 days.


So it was decided, we would take her with us on our FL–>CA journey.  Now, because most of my friends know me as a bit of a crazy cat person, a few of them had posted an ad for something called the “UPet” carrier on my Facebook page a few months back. So with this trip officially happening, I knew it was the perfect thing to enable us to take Bentley anywhere.  Of course, I also thought it was a necessity, otherwise I would not have shelled out the $100 it cost to get it. (TOTALLY WORTH IT).

The first day/night of the trip was the most stressful day for me. I was so worried about how she would handle being in a carrier in the car for 6 hours and then how she would do in a hotel overnight. I hardly slept the first night because every little sound I heard would freak me out and I’d have to get my flashlight on my phone and physically see where Bentley was/what she was doing. But as the trip progressed, she got better and better being in the car and in a hotel room. I actually think she preferred being on the road to anything.

Now before I give some of my tips for traveling with a cat, let me explain Bentley a little bit and her personality. She’s a tortoise shell tabby cat: a breed known for the particularity. By that I mean that she literally does not get along with anyone besides Joey and I. She tolerates some of our friends who she see regularly, but also completely despises some that she sees quite often (like my sister). So she’s a pretty picky little kitty. Also, she has not been “raised” as a cat in the slightest. My boyfriend had never had a cat before he bought Bentley for me, and he very much treated her like a puppy dog. She plays fetch, breathes with her mouth open, and talks (meows) SO much for attention and when she wants something. She’s also driven in the car before and prefers sitting on my lap while we drive, something we couldn’t allow on this trip because the car was very purposefully packed.

I’m going to break down my tips into 2 categories, tips for the car and tips for the hotel.


Tips for traveling long distance by car with a cat:

  • Make sure the car is as comfortable as possible for you and for your cat: We made sure to set the carrier up to where she could see out the window, cats like having a view and we knew that would help her feel comfortable, we also made sure the carrier had enough room so that she didn’t feel caustrophobic or like she was “trapped.” We also made sure that I had enough room to move from the front seat towards the back if I needed to check on her.
  • Set up a litter box: A lot of stuff I had read about driving with a cat said that the cat wouldn’t use a litter box while on the road. This proved false for Bentley. Once we hit the third day of our trip she was so used to being in the car that we gave her free range of the back seat AND she started using the litter box on the road.
  • Only let your cat roam if you’re comfortable: Some pages said to NEVER let your cat have free range of the car while driving. Again, we knew Bentley was not your average cat. We packed the car so that it was impossible for her to get under the seats or in any type of crevice. We also put the back seats down so it was all flat space for her. AND we created a little bridge so that she would know that she was not allowed in the front seats.
  • Never transfer your cat from car to hotel without a carrier: When we gave her free range of the car, we would transfer her back into the carrier anytime we were about to get out of the car. And did so WITHOUT opening any of the car doors. This is important because you don’t want your cat to get skittish and jump out of the car while you’re trying to get him/her into their carrier.
  • Bring their toys and anything they might recognize from home: We brought all of Bentley’s favorite toys and left them throughout the car. She would also sleep on our bathmat in our bathroom back home, so we brought that and placed it in the car for her. Cats are sensitive to smell , so filling the space with smells that are recognizable to them is very beneficial.
  • Be prepared with food and water: I had also read that cats wouldn’t eat or drink while on the road. Another fallacy. On that third day on the road, Bentley was crying and I couldn’t figure out why. I decided to set up her bowl with food and another for water, AND SHE ATE AND DRANK. From that point on, I made sure she had food and water in the car.

Tips for staying in a hotel with your cat:

  • Set up the litter box pretty quickly after arriving: And then show the cat where you’ve positioned it. This is the first thing they’ll associate with “home” and will help them feel more comfortable.
  • Set up food and water: If you’re cat doesn’t eat on the road (as some websites had said) they’ll probably be dehydrated and very hungry from the trip.
  • Bring their toys inside: Bring their toys into your hotel room and encourage some play time. We made sure Bentley got a lot of exercise every time we stopped at a hotel, by making her run and jump around. Having the toys scattered around the hotel room also helps with their comfortability.
  • Kitty proof the room: We made sure that it was impossible for Bentley to get into any nook and cranny by stuffing pillows between desks, by barricading our suitcases against sliding closet doors (she can open them), etc. Luckily most hotels these days have closed off beds, where nothing can get lost underneath, big win for traveling with a cat!
  • Do Not Disturb sign: If you ever leave your kitty in the hotel room on their own, make sure you place the Do Not Disturb sign on the door. This will prevent anyone (housekeeping) from accidentally opening your door. And if you stay at a La Quinta, they make note that you have an animal and will also make sure only to enter your room after calling/ after you’ve checked out.

Now for the carriers! Let me tell you a little bit about the UPet Cat Carrier. It’s a spacious backpack, SUPER easy to carry around and has enough room so that your cat can lay down or sit up and peek out the bubble window. This was a big savior to us for two reasons: one, we knew we were going to sight see and do some touristy things everywhere we went and did not feel comfortable leaving Bentley in the hotel and two, leaving her in the car was NEVER an option. If you’re traveling with a pet please do your best to accommodate for them so that you don’t leave them in the car. I hate when I see little doggies in the front seat with a window cracked. We were in no way going to do that with Bentley.

The UPet carrier was big time for still allowing us the freedom of doing what we pleased without Bentley being a roadblock. Now on some stops, we took her out in her original carrying case and the one I flew from CA to FL with her in. This one she liked to sleep in while in the car so we kept it open to where she could go in and out as she pleased. If she fell asleep inside and we were about to get out of the car (like we did at Horseshoe Bend, AZ), we just let her sleep and carried the carrier. This one was much harder to carry because it couldn’t go on our backs, the things we do for our pets!


I would suggest trying out different carriers and only using what your cat is 100% comfortable with. We got the UPet carrier shipped to us early so that we could go on walks with Bentley and get her comfortable with it, and it did just that.

I would also say, if your cat hasn’t been in a car before, practice little drives with them before gearing up for a big trip. This is also good for you because then your pet won’t associate their carrier or the car with going to the vet.

Traveling with my cat was one of the most wild things I’ve ever done but it was so much fun and such an experience. If anyone is traveling with a pet, I hope my advice helps!

I know I said this before, but you should also check and make sure you’re in a pet friendly hotel. That way you don’t have to sneak around and worry about possibly getting fined. The TripAdvisor page, link here, helps you plan your trips with all of this in mind!




  1. Aww you have such an adorable cat! I had a tortie kitty for 17 years (recently passed this summer 😦 ), reminds me of the time when we moved and had to drive her down the East Coast. Very unique idea for a post, happy new year ❤

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  2. Omg that is the most incredible thing bringing Bentley on the ride. It melts my heart!!! That’s a true cat/pet parent right there. I also think its the coolest thing that people have actually invented things for pet friendly traveling, bless those peoples hearts for being so innovative lol

    xo, JJ

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  3. You guys have such an adorable cat! (and I really adore the name ‘Bentley’ too; it has such pizzazz) XD I live with a 7-year-old Labrador-Rottweiler cross, and taking him anywhere far for long would be a hassle because of how big he is. It must have been nice travelling alongside your kitty 🙂

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